Welcome!
This is where we stop repeating patterns and start choosing you.

I’m Kirsty-Lee a counsellor supporting women who’ve been through the shit in relationships and feel like they’ve lost themselves along the way.
If you’re feeling anxious, stuck in your head, caught in emotional spirals, or unsure how to trust yourself again… you’re not alone.
And you’re not broken.
You’ve been in survival mode.
Maybe you’ve experienced:
• toxic or unhealthy relationships
• emotional confusion or constant overthinking
• loss of confidence or identity
• people-pleasing and putting yourself last
• patterns you can’t seem to break
At some point, you stopped feeling like you.
This is where things start to shift.
I help you slow things down and understand what’s actually going on beneath the surface — your triggers, your reactions, and the patterns keeping you stuck.
Together, we focus on:
• calming the emotional overwhelm
• making sense of your responses
• rebuilding your confidence
• setting boundaries that feel right for you
• reconnecting with who you are
You don’t need fixing.
You need support, clarity, and a space where you feel safe to work through it.
This is about surviving the shit… and learning how to rebuild yourself.



